Anal Play
Benwa balls as well as many others have been known to be used widely in gay male communities yet have now made their way into the mainstream track of society. Having these balls inserted very sensually and removed very gently and lovingly can be quite an experience for both parties. These beads and balls come in many sizes for those of you who would like to graduate or foresee graduating from the basic sizes, let’s face it; some of us are a little more adventuresome than others which is quite fine.
Anal Play in the BDSM Realm
There are much more exciting things to discuss if this is seemingly hum drum but we all know that eventually one might partake in anal play. Say for example you have a couple where one partner is quite innocent and has not been broken in so to speak when it comes to anal sex play. Where would you start? How about you do it doggie style and accidentally touch it with a little lubricant. If they freak out, maybe you should discuss it yet there are times when being spontaneous is much better than discussing every little detail of the kinky things you’d like to try. In the bdsm realm anal play is most referred to as rimming which is playing with and adding stimulation to the outer rim of one’s rectum. There are so many women that tell me they simply love when their man plays with their rim just before they are to cum with him inside them. Anal play is normal in bdsm circles and is no longer just for gay men. And keep a cleaning supply nearby for your anal toys, cleanliness is very crucial.
